I'm finally getting a grasp on how to deal with raging narcissists or other mentally unstable people. Let me tell you, my life has become so much better now that I (mostly) have a grasp on this. So what else is a blog but to share? Ha! So here are my tips for how to deal.
-Stop trying to make sense of the person's actions or words. It does not make sense & it won't because they are not well.
-Realize nothing you do or say can change this person...pray for them anyway.
-Distance, distance, distance!!! Healthy boundaries MUST be in place to protect yourself & family. Distance is the way to do this. Minimize or remove virtual contact & spend less time together. Recognize you can still get hurt this way, but you reduce the frequency.
-Put your blinders on & focus on your own life & family. Dwelling on their skewed view of things brings nothing good! Don't allow the narcissist to harm your other relationships.
-Grant forgiveness knowing they will never ask for it.
I've been working on these things & feel like I'm finally making some headway & there is so much peace in that. We'll see how well I can deal as I know I'm gonna be tested soon. :o)
On another note, our camera is broken. :( I will try to get some good phone pics.
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